"I'm really sorry for your loss. Please take all the time you need—we've got everything covered here."
: Don't shy away from using the deceased person's name or acknowledging that the situation "sucks" or is "heartbreaking". bereaved
"I'm so sorry. I love you, and I'm here for the messy days and the quiet ones. No need to respond." "I'm really sorry for your loss
: Instead of "let me know if I can help," offer concrete tasks like dropping off groceries, mowing the lawn, or handling laundry. mowing the lawn
"I am shocked and heartbroken for you. I don't have the right words, but I want you to know I'm here."