The title is ironic. The episode explores the impossibility of quick forgiveness when a trust so deep is broken.
The heartbreak of Angel Season 3 is a slow burn that turns into a raging fire, and "Forgiving" is the moment it all combusts. Following the tragic events of " Sleep Tight "—where Connor was stolen away to a hell dimension by Holtz, thanks to Wesley’s misguided interference—"Forgiving" picks up the pieces of Angel Investigations. The result is a tense, claustrophobic episode that forces the team to deal with the consequences of love, fear, and betrayal. The Fallout: A Broken Family [S3E21] Forgiven
The tension between the couple is palpable as they try to navigate their loyalty to Angel while grappling with the horror of what Wesley did 1.2.6. The title is ironic